Buyers Will Never Confess To This
Thursday, April 30th, 2009
There is a truth in the buyer-seller relationship that is rarely revealed by the buyer and frequently goes unseen by the seller. The recognition of this truth will cause us to worry less about losing customers. It will also give us more confidence when pricing.

First, A Couple Of Notes
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Now, Where Were We?
There is a secret that buyers will seldom confess to us. It has to do with personal value or human capital that we bring to the buyer-seller relationship. I learned about this classified information on an occasion when I fired a high maintenance, slow paying, low volume, no profit customer. You know the type.
You’re Fired
I fired this customer by using a “dull pencil.” Using a “dull pencil” simply means the opposite of using a “sharp pencil.” I increased their pricing, hoping they would jump ship – my ship. They complained, but didn’t quit buying from me. I increased their pricing again; they kept buying. I increased their pricing a third time. You guessed right. They continued to order from me.
I finally had to call them and kindly ask them to buy from one of our competitors – please. I even suggested a competitor.
A Light Bulb Goes On
I hung up from that phone call and asked myself, what is going on here? I concluded that they hated the idea of having to source and qualify another supplier. The pain of finding a replacement supplier was greater than the pain of my increasing prices. Buyers generally dislike finding a new supplier when the one they have is working just fine.
Finding a new supplier is not easy or simple. They would have to interview suppliers, establish credit, start a new relationship from scratch and train the new sales professional on their purchasing department’s paperwork gymnastics.
This was not going to be easy or fun for them. They would have to exert themselves.
Truth Revealed
It is costly and time consuming for companies to change suppliers. Especially strategic suppliers.
As sales professionals, we often perceive that we are on the brink of losing all of our customers. Not true. Our customers are much stickier than we think. We don’t need to worry about customer attrition nearly as much as we are inclined to. We can also charge higher prices to many of our customers because they know the costs of changing vendors.
It’s their little secret.
©2010 Scott R. Sheaffer


