Why “Needy Ears” Will Kill Your Prospecting Mojo
Monday, February 22nd, 2010
One of the ways we act like children is to only hear what we want – or need – to hear. While it might be entertaining to watch kids practice “selective hearing,” this habit can dynamite our business development efforts.
What Are Needy Ears?
“Needy Ears” are ears that only hear information that supports our self-deception. The deception we’re forcing on ourselves is that the companies we have in our pipeline have real potential when they don’t.
We sometimes feel so desperate to fill our pipeline that we lie to ourselves. The pressure for this can come from within and from sales management.
I used to work for a Regional Vice President who would put the squeeze on her sales force to the point that she encouraged this kind of behavior. The sales funnel for her organization, as a result, was worthless.
Prospects Know When We Have Needy Ears
We all know that customers and prospects can tell when we’re coming from a position of urgent need, when we have to get more business.
When decision makers detect we are listening (i.e. filtering) with needy ears, they will frequently take advantage of us. We unconsciously become their sales slaves by: overly discounting, providing information beyond what is reasonable, allowing them to play us against our competition and letting them waste our time.
Sales Tips Rx
What can we do to maintain our objectivity and not be a victim of needy ears?
1. Get real with yourself. You know in your gut when a prospect is wasting your time. Listen to that voice and move on. Activity alone does not equal sales. It’s a temporary balm.
2. Start asking hard qualifying questions at the beginning of the sales cycle and throughout. Budget. Time frame. Decision makers. Competition. Product and service fit. Legal roadblocks to contract execution. You get the idea.
3. Finally, and possibly most importantly, find a trusted peer who will be your accountability partner. He or she will ask you tough questions about each prospect in your funnel and help you discard the ones that don’t make sense. You are free to reciprocate the favor. Think of this as an episode of Clean House. Your “house” is your funnel and your trusted peer is providing the intervention.
Further sales tips reading:
Sales Managers, Prospect with your sales force!
What do I need from a prospect? Hint: information
What do I need from a prospect? Hint: relationship
Good Sales-Good Economy, Bad Sales-Bad Salesperson
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